1.
On average how often do you cry
times per
Day
Week
Month
Year
2.
On average how long do you cry for (in minutes)
3.
At what time of the day do you cry the most
Morning
Afternoon
Evening
Night
Varies to much to say
4.
At which location would you say you cried the most
(try to be as specific as possible, e.g. Bedroom, Bathroom, Work, Car etc rather than 'At Home')
5.
Which events or situations are most likely to make you cry
6.
Generally how would you rate your tendency to cry
01
02
03
04
05
06
07
08
09
10
(almost never ~ 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10 ~ very easily)
7.
Has your tendency to cry been significantly (and permanently) altered (either
augmented or diminished) since an unusual event occurred to you
Yes
No
8.
If Yes, please specify the type of event
9.
Are you embarrassed about crying in front of other people
Yes, no matter who it is
Yes, except close family or friends
No, except work colleagues or strangers
No, no matter who it is
10.
If you wish to comment further please do so in the box below
11.
Can you make yourself cry by thinking about happy/sad events or other
similar methods
Yes
No
12.
Have you ever used tears to your advantage
Yes
No
13.
If Yes, please describe when and why you used tears to your advantage
14.
Have you ever been manipulated by tears
Yes
No
15.
If Yes, please describe the event when you where manipulated by tears
16.
Have you ever cried at a film or television programme
Yes
No
17.
List your top three tear jerking films/programmes in order
18.
Do you believe that tears can look attractive, either in films or real life
Yes - Only in films
Yes - Only in real life
Yes - Both films & real life
No - Neither films or real life
19.
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20.
How was your crying viewed/treated in your family as a child
21.
Would you regard yourself as an emotional person, someone who is easily moved
to tears
Yes
No
22.
If you wish to comment further please do so in the box below
23.
How do you feel if someone is crying in front of you
I pretend not to notice
I try to console them verbally
I try to console them by putting my arm around them
I get angry
I do not know how to react
I get embarrassed
Other - please enter in box below
(Male)
I pretend not to notice
I try to console them verbally
I try to console them by putting my arm around them
I get angry
I do not know how to react
I get embarrassed
Other - please enter in box below
(Close Male)
I pretend not to notice
I try to console them verbally
I try to console them by putting my arm around them
I get angry
I do not know how to react
I get embarrassed
Other - please enter in box below
(Female)
I pretend not to notice
I try to console them verbally
I try to console them by putting my arm around them
I get angry
I do not know how to react
I get embarrassed
Other - please enter in box below
(Close Female)
24.
If you wish to comment further please do so in the box below
25.
Do you believe that crying is becoming more or less acceptable in society
for both Men and Women
More acceptable
Unchanged
Less acceptable
Other - please enter in box below
(In General)
More acceptable
Unchanged
Less acceptable
Other - please enter in box below
(For Men)
More acceptable
Unchanged
Less acceptable
Other - please enter in box below
(For Women)
26.
If you wish to comment further please do so in the box below
Please try and select 'Exact Date' from the drop-down list and
enter that date in the boxes below. However, if you cannot remember exactly when you last cried
just select the closest time frame from the drop-down list.
1.
When did your last crying episode occur
Exact Date
Less than one day ago
2 to 5 days ago
6 to 10 days ago
11 to 30 days ago
1 to 6 months ago
7 to 12 months ago
More than a year ago
Exact last crying date
01 02 03 04 05
06 07 08 09 10
11 12 13 14 15
16 17 18 19 20
21 22 23 24 25
26 27 28 29 30
31
January February March April
May June July August September
October November December
2.
Please describe the event/reasons why you were crying
Please try and select 'Exact Time' from the drop-down list and
enter that time in the box below. However, if you cannot remember exactly just select the closest
duration from the drop-down list and ignore the time field.
3.
How long did this crying episode last
Exact Time
Less than 5 minutes
Between 5 and 15 minutes
Between 16 and 30 minutes
Between 31 and 60 minutes
More than one hour
Over a recurring period
Exact last crying duration (in minutes)
4.
What did you do when you started to cry
Stay where you were
Run to the nearest bathroom
Go somewhere else to be alone
Go and find someone to cry to
5.
How intense was your crying
Lump in my throat
Choked up
Close to tears
Tears in my eyes
Tears down my face
Sobbing
6.
If tears were present what was your reaction
No tears present
Bury face in hands to hide tears
Directly wipe eyes so no tears would fall down face
Wiped tear drops from face
Let tears roll down face unchecked
7.
How many people were present
None
1
2
3
4
5+
8.
Of the people present please give the composition of the 5 most significant
people and describe the interaction between you and that person
Relationship
Your main feeling
Persons reaction
Relationship changed
I don't know
Relief
Joy
Contempt
Sadness
Fear
Humiliation
Self pity
Impotence
Satisfaction
Anger
Disgust
Guilt
Happiness
Frustration
Consternation
Touched
Delight
Other
Pretended not to notice me crying
Tried to console me
Was angry
Did not know how to react
Was embarrassed
Told me that he/she understood
Stopped being nasty (disagreeable)
Became kinder or warmer
Other
No
Yes, It has worsened
Yes, It has improved
I don't know
Relief
Joy
Contempt
Sadness
Fear
Humiliation
Self pity
Impotence
Satisfaction
Anger
Disgust
Guilt
Happiness
Frustration
Consternation
Touched
Delight
Other
Pretended not to notice me crying
Tried to console me
Was angry
Did not know how to react
Was embarrassed
Told me that he/she understood
Stopped being nasty (disagreeable)
Became kinder or warmer
Other
No
Yes, It has worsened
Yes, It has improved
I don't know
Relief
Joy
Contempt
Sadness
Fear
Humiliation
Self pity
Impotence
Satisfaction
Anger
Disgust
Guilt
Happiness
Frustration
Consternation
Touched
Delight
Other
Pretended not to notice me crying
Tried to console me
Was angry
Did not know how to react
Was embarrassed
Told me that he/she understood
Stopped being nasty (disagreeable)
Became kinder or warmer
Other
No
Yes, It has worsened
Yes, It has improved
I don't know
Relief
Joy
Contempt
Sadness
Fear
Humiliation
Self pity
Impotence
Satisfaction
Anger
Disgust
Guilt
Happiness
Frustration
Consternation
Touched
Delight
Other
Pretended not to notice me crying
Tried to console me
Was angry
Did not know how to react
Was embarrassed
Told me that he/she understood
Stopped being nasty (disagreeable)
Became kinder or warmer
Other
No
Yes, It has worsened
Yes, It has improved
I don't know
Relief
Joy
Contempt
Sadness
Fear
Humiliation
Self pity
Impotence
Satisfaction
Anger
Disgust
Guilt
Happiness
Frustration
Consternation
Touched
Delight
Other
Pretended not to notice me crying
Tried to console me
Was angry
Did not know how to react
Was embarrassed
Told me that he/she understood
Stopped being nasty (disagreeable)
Became kinder or warmer
Other
No
Yes, It has worsened
Yes, It has improved
9.
How did you feel (mentally) after having cried, in comparison with beforehand
Made things worse
Didn't change anything
Made things better
1.
Have you ever cried while at work, either in your current or
previous employment
Yes
No
2.
How many times have you cried while at work
Once only
Between 2 & 5
Between 6 & 10
More than 10
If the last time you cried at work was the last time you cried
and you have already detailed this crying episode in the Section above please tick the box below.
NOTE: Ticking this box will auto fill your answers in Section 4 into this Section, please feel free
to add to these answers within this Section if you wish. Un-ticking this box will clear this Section
removing any previously entered questions.
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Please try and select 'Exact Date' from the drop-down list and
enter that date in the boxes above. However, if you cannot remember exactly when you last cried at work
just select the closest time frame from the drop-down list.
3.
When did your last work crying episode occur
Exact Date
Less than one day ago
2 to 5 days ago
6 to 10 days ago
11 to 30 days ago
1 to 6 months ago
7 to 12 months ago
More than a year ago
Exact last crying date
01 02 03 04 05
06 07 08 09 10
11 12 13 14 15
16 17 18 19 20
21 22 23 24 25
26 27 28 29 30
31
January February March April
May June July August September
October November December
4.
Please describe the event/reasons why you were crying at work
Please try and select 'Exact Time' from the drop-down list and
enter that time in the box above. However, if you cannot remember exactly just select the closest
duration from the drop-down list and ignore the time field.
5.
How long did this crying episode last
Exact Time
Less than 5 minutes
Between 5 and 15 minutes
Between 16 and 30 minutes
Between 31 and 60 minutes
More than one hour
Over a recurring period
Exact last crying duration (in minutes)
6.
What did you do when you started to cry
Stay where you were
Run to the nearest bathroom
Go somewhere else to be alone
Go and find someone to cry to
7.
How intense was your crying
Lump in my throat
Choked up
Close to tears
Tears in my eyes
Tears down my face
Sobbing
8.
If tears were present what was your reaction
No tears present
Bury face in hands to hide tears
Directly wipe eyes so no tears would fall down face
Wiped tear drops from face
Let tears roll down face unchecked
9.
How many people were present
None
1
2
3
4
5+
10.
Of the people present please give the composition of the 5 most significant
people and describe the interaction between you and that person
Relationship
Your main feeling
Persons reaction
Relationship changed
I don't know
Relief
Joy
Contempt
Sadness
Fear
Humiliation
Self pity
Impotence
Satisfaction
Anger
Disgust
Guilt
Happiness
Frustration
Consternation
Touched
Delight
Other
Pretended not to notice me crying
Tried to console me
Was angry
Did not know how to react
Was embarrassed
Told me that he/she understood
Stopped being nasty (disagreeable)
Became kinder or warmer
Other
No
Yes, It has worsened
Yes, It has improved
I don't know
Relief
Joy
Contempt
Sadness
Fear
Humiliation
Self pity
Impotence
Satisfaction
Anger
Disgust
Guilt
Happiness
Frustration
Consternation
Touched
Delight
Other
Pretended not to notice me crying
Tried to console me
Was angry
Did not know how to react
Was embarrassed
Told me that he/she understood
Stopped being nasty (disagreeable)
Became kinder or warmer
Other
No
Yes, It has worsened
Yes, It has improved
I don't know
Relief
Joy
Contempt
Sadness
Fear
Humiliation
Self pity
Impotence
Satisfaction
Anger
Disgust
Guilt
Happiness
Frustration
Consternation
Touched
Delight
Other
Pretended not to notice me crying
Tried to console me
Was angry
Did not know how to react
Was embarrassed
Told me that he/she understood
Stopped being nasty (disagreeable)
Became kinder or warmer
Other
No
Yes, It has worsened
Yes, It has improved
I don't know
Relief
Joy
Contempt
Sadness
Fear
Humiliation
Self pity
Impotence
Satisfaction
Anger
Disgust
Guilt
Happiness
Frustration
Consternation
Touched
Delight
Other
Pretended not to notice me crying
Tried to console me
Was angry
Did not know how to react
Was embarrassed
Told me that he/she understood
Stopped being nasty (disagreeable)
Became kinder or warmer
Other
No
Yes, It has worsened
Yes, It has improved
I don't know
Relief
Joy
Contempt
Sadness
Fear
Humiliation
Self pity
Impotence
Satisfaction
Anger
Disgust
Guilt
Happiness
Frustration
Consternation
Touched
Delight
Other
Pretended not to notice me crying
Tried to console me
Was angry
Did not know how to react
Was embarrassed
Told me that he/she understood
Stopped being nasty (disagreeable)
Became kinder or warmer
Other
No
Yes, It has worsened
Yes, It has improved
11.
How did you feel (mentally) after having cried, in comparison with beforehand
Made things worse
Didn't change anything
Made things better
Please select the description from the following characteristics that
best describes the way in which you cry.
1.
How much noise do you make when you cry
I make no sound when I cry
Very little sound; voice a bit shaky
Irregular breathing; voice distorted by emotion
Can't speak; breathing in gasps
I cry loudly; sobbing and body movements
2.
Do you prefer to be alone or in company when you cry
I don't really mind who sees me crying
I feel a bit uncomfortable in front of people I don't know
Ok, but only in front of people close to me
Only the closest of people but still feel uncomfortable
I prefer to be completely alone every time I cry
3.
Do you hide your tears or cry openly
I usually cover my face to hide any tears
I directly wipe my eyes so no tears fall
Tears leave my eyes but I wipe them away immediately
I let tears fall down my face which I occasionally wipe away
I usually let tears fall down my face unchecked
4.
How many tears do you shed when you cry
I do not shed tears; wet eyes at most
Very wet eyes with perhaps one or two tears
Usually shed only a few tears
Usually cry a steady flow of tears
Tears stream from my eyes as soon as I start crying
5.
How do you react during crying
I make myself cry for as long as possible
I let myself cry for as long as I need to
I let myself cry but not for to long
I try to stop crying as soon as possible
I am fighting to stop crying from the moment I start
6.
How do you feel after crying
I feel much better after crying
I feel a little better after crying
Crying makes no difference to the way I feel
I feel a little worse after crying
I feel much worse after crying
7.
Do you feel happy with the level of your crying
I feel I cry to much and want to cry less
A little less crying would be better
I am happy with my crying frequency
I would like to cry a little more than I do
I don't feel I cry enough and would like to cry more